A man shared how a long-distance relationship wasn’t going anywhere, and he was glad when she cheated. However, the other man still sees him as competition, which led to having to get payback on his ex’s now husband.
Long Distance Relationship
He explained, “I dated a girl long-distance for a year back in 2010. We weren’t arguing, but there just wasn’t any chemistry between us.”
Hardly Saw Each Other
He and his girlfriend hardly ever saw each other. Neither felt serious enough about the other to take the big step of moving closer.
Wanting an Easy Way Out
The man was just looking for an easy way out. He figured things would reach a natural end eventually.
Things Played Out
Things played out naturally as communication fizzled out. Despite no official breakup, the two of them no longer called each other or arranged to meet up.
A Month Later
A Month after the last time he spoke to her, the new boyfriend called him. The man said, “He told me that she had been seeing him behind my back and that she never really loved me, etc…”
Laughed It Off
He laughed it off because he knew the relationship wasn’t going anywhere. He had been looking for an easy way to make the break official for months.
Much Easier
The man said, “Being long distance made it much easier. Apparently, it made him feel good about himself to tell me.”
Married
His ex married this man a few years later. “I heard about it on Facebook, through a friend of a friend,” he recalled.
Moved On
He said he moved on long before their relationship was officially over. So, he was happy for his ex, and never held any animosity towards her.
Mr Steal Your Girl
The now-husband was traveling for work when he tagged a mutual friend in a comment. He posted, “Mr steal your girl, back in your city.”
Mentioned on Facebook
He said, “The friend he tagged asked what he was talking about and he mentioned me. It turned out, he had made several posts like this before.”
Still On His Mind
He pointed out, “I haven’t seen or talked to either my ex or him since about a month after he called me years ago. During which there were several petty interactions. However, The fact that I was still on his mind after a few years, thinking that he had won some sort of competition against me got my petty revenge thoughts brewing.”
Took A Swing
He went on to say, “I mean, he thinks this is a petty competition. So, why not step up to the plate and take a few (metaphorical) swings?”
Went Through His Social Media
He looked through the husband’s social media and noticed the pair of them were living at the same house she was at years earlier. So he knew the address, and also knew that you can sign people up to be visited by Jehovah’s Witnesses.
8 Months Later
He finished by saying, “Fast forward another few months. There’s a new post about him having to deal with JWs coming to his door 8 times in a month.”
Name Slip
One person suggested a reason for the husband’s competitiveness towards him. “She definitely said your name by accident during something and that set him off.”
A Way To Create Problems
Another said, “You don’t mess with the actual ex if they aren’t causing problems. That just creates them.”
What He Should Have Said
One man suggested that he should have said, “You do know there were three of us, right?” He said that should be enough to make the husband paranoid.
Go Further
Another person said, “Sign them up for a few “adult” catalogs. Free hearing aids evals, etc.”
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